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Visual Cues To Train Your Slave.

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I apo­lo­gise for the miss­ing pic­tures. The upgrade of my blog des­troyed them, unfor­tu­nately I can­not recover them.
I have decided to take this screen­shot and send it to my slave as a visual cue. Lately we have made much pro­gress in the area of relax­ing her holes enough so that she is no longer pained by the inser­tion of lar­ger objects. Using objects which are not neces­sar­ily asso­ci­ated dir­ectly with sex, thus break a taboo, make it even more inter­est­ing. The mind is a power­ful ally when you begin train­ing your slave to find pleas­ure and nasty thoughts in any­thing that sur­rounds her.

Train­ing By Association

Just like you would con­di­tion an animal by asso­ci­ation this also works for human beings. The main dif­fer­ence is that a human being needs to allow this asso­ci­ation to hap­pen con­sciously. It is up to you, as an Owner, to ensure your slave feels safe enough to allow that asso­ci­ation to hap­pen. Often this means that already estab­lished asso­ci­ations need to be broken first. A very com­mon example is that you are not to play nor swal­low any of your urine. To play with or asso­ci­ate our urine with any­thing close being sexual is per­ceived as “wrong” or “per­ver­ted”.
These pre-established asso­ci­ations need to be broken, before you can teach your slave to enjoy her­self. This holds true for veget­ables, just as much as water sports.

Visual Cues

I am con­vinced that visual cues are often the easi­est approach to enfor­cing a desire. The pic­ture above can be used to cre­ate a visual cue for your slave’s own desires and fantas­ies. It would be easy to fol­low that up by some­thing like:

Do you see that car­rot my slave? Can you ima­gine cook­ing veget­able soup and me com­ing to see you in the kit­chen? I would take a cleaned car­rot, which still has all the greens at the end and slowly push it into your shit-hole, until only the greens are stick­ing out. Then you would have to fin­ish cook­ing while those greens are brush­ing and shift­ing around. I know that makes you wet, does it not?

Angst And Timid Slaves

Without a visual clue, prov­ing that some­thing out­rageous sound­ing has been done before by a human being, some slaves might react with angst to any of your sug­ges­tions. Hav­ing a car­rot inser­ted into the soft­ness of her asscunt will sound alien and some­times scary to your slave. See­ing that someone else has already done it, will help her under­stand that it is less extraordin­ary than she thinks. This espe­cially holds true for extreme acts, such as fist­ing, huge object inser­tions, water sports and sex with anim­als. Those top­ics need to be care­fully approached and pic­tures can help you not only arouse your slave, but take some of her fear away.

Eyes…

Just as much as pic­tures can illus­trate some­thing that has been done, your eyes can illus­trate very well what will hap­pen. Humans are instinct­ively trained to pick up clues in someone’s beha­viour, we also learn very quickly to judge mood and inten­tion by look­ing into the eyes of someone. This might be a left-over from pred­ator days. You will find that with many anim­als star­ing into the eyes of an oppon­ent is per­ceived as an act of aggres­sion. Cats are a very good example for this kind behaviour.

Pleas­ure And Vir­tual Clues

Be very care­ful what type of visual clues you are show­ing to your slave. When you attempt to fur­ther her mind into learn­ing about new desires make sure the pic­tures you are show­ing her reflect joy and not anger. When see­ing someone fis­ted, fucked in her asscunt or used to swal­low a huge toy, the pic­ture should reflect that it is a joy to the per­son in that pic­ture. This will help to lower the threshold of angst in your girl, allow­ing her to accept that this might be just some­thing she can enjoy herself.

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