I apologise for the missing pictures. The upgrade of my blog destroyed them, unfortunately I cannot recover them.
I have decided to take this screenshot and send it to my slave as a visual cue. Lately we have made much progress in the area of relaxing her holes enough so that she is no longer pained by the insertion of larger objects. Using objects which are not necessarily associated directly with sex, thus break a taboo, make it even more interesting. The mind is a powerful ally when you begin training your slave to find pleasure and nasty thoughts in anything that surrounds her.
Training By Association
Just like you would condition an animal by association this also works for human beings. The main difference is that a human being needs to allow this association to happen consciously. It is up to you, as an Owner, to ensure your slave feels safe enough to allow that association to happen. Often this means that already established associations need to be broken first. A very common example is that you are not to play nor swallow any of your urine. To play with or associate our urine with anything close being sexual is perceived as “wrong” or “perverted”.
These pre-established associations need to be broken, before you can teach your slave to enjoy herself. This holds true for vegetables, just as much as water sports.
Visual Cues
I am convinced that visual cues are often the easiest approach to enforcing a desire. The picture above can be used to create a visual cue for your slave’s own desires and fantasies. It would be easy to follow that up by something like:
Do you see that carrot my slave? Can you imagine cooking vegetable soup and me coming to see you in the kitchen? I would take a cleaned carrot, which still has all the greens at the end and slowly push it into your shit-hole, until only the greens are sticking out. Then you would have to finish cooking while those greens are brushing and shifting around. I know that makes you wet, does it not?
Angst And Timid Slaves
Without a visual clue, proving that something outrageous sounding has been done before by a human being, some slaves might react with angst to any of your suggestions. Having a carrot inserted into the softness of her asscunt will sound alien and sometimes scary to your slave. Seeing that someone else has already done it, will help her understand that it is less extraordinary than she thinks. This especially holds true for extreme acts, such as fisting, huge object insertions, water sports and sex with animals. Those topics need to be carefully approached and pictures can help you not only arouse your slave, but take some of her fear away.
Eyes…
Just as much as pictures can illustrate something that has been done, your eyes can illustrate very well what will happen. Humans are instinctively trained to pick up clues in someone’s behaviour, we also learn very quickly to judge mood and intention by looking into the eyes of someone. This might be a left-over from predator days. You will find that with many animals staring into the eyes of an opponent is perceived as an act of aggression. Cats are a very good example for this kind behaviour.
Pleasure And Virtual Clues
Be very careful what type of visual clues you are showing to your slave. When you attempt to further her mind into learning about new desires make sure the pictures you are showing her reflect joy and not anger. When seeing someone fisted, fucked in her asscunt or used to swallow a huge toy, the picture should reflect that it is a joy to the person in that picture. This will help to lower the threshold of angst in your girl, allowing her to accept that this might be just something she can enjoy herself.