I do not know much about the struggle the gay community had o go through to finally get accepted by most of the societies and countries on this planet. I have gay friends, but it is not a topic which is brought up very often. There is an element of pride in the homosexual movement which strikes me as appealing though. As our society changes we need to be less afraid of the influence such change as on our lives. It seems that this gay pride has helped in making homosexuality more visible, has helped society to need to accept it as something normal.

Our Pride

Whenever I venture into the realms of BDSM I meet people who are smart, have a balanced opinion and lead an interesting life. There are many different personalities and facets to those involved in this lifestyle and very seldom have I met someone that I could not be proud of. Why do we choose to hide our choice(…)

Yes, I know, the title threw you, did it not? Why would I want to deliberately hurt my most priced possession? There is a good reason. I am writing this article to expand on a point my slave recently made on her journal about something the BDSM community calls subspace. Many treat subspace as something mysterious and it took me a long time to understand what it possibly could refer to myself. I am now convinced that it is a physiological state you can put your slave’s body in, if you learn to carefully stimulate her.

Pain

Pain itself is a very complex topic. It has been researched for decades and while we understand fully how pain receptors and chemicals involved work, we still do not quite understand how pain interacts with our body. To get a good understanding on the basics of Pain I would suggest you go and read the article published by the National Institute Of Neurological Disorders And Stroke.
The most(…)

The other day I came home from work and walked past the small Indian shop close to the Underground station. That shop seems to sell everything you can find on the backstreets of Calcutta, imported to be sold here as well. The picture to the left is a result of a purchase I made that very day. I spotted these classic cloth pegs and I just had to have them. Not because I am running out of ways to pinch my clothing to dry it outside, but because the first thing I could think about when I saw those pegs was nipples.

Connections…

Looking at the cloth pegs I made an immediate connection between their shape and usual type of use and my slave’s body. The ends of these pegs are perfectly suited to allow a thin rope to be tied around it and their shape should make it easy to either trap nipples or even a swollen clitoris between the small wooden ends.(…)

How do you control your slave? Quite often that question is discussed on various online forums and quite often will you find that control should be achieved by tight feedback loops, rules and regulations. I can agree to some extent, as we are always looking for a common ground which is achieved ultimately by those tools mentioned above; consistency.When thinking about controlling my slave, I often come to think about how my cats control me. Yes, you heard right, there is actually one dominant force in my life and they are both tiny but very demanding. My cats manage to control me through many different means, there are some consistent ones I have learned to recognise.

• They only demand things when they truly want or need them.
• They are always there for me when they think I am sick or not feeling well
• They will always respect my moods
• They demand more

Translation

I know it still sounds very much like a bit of gibberish but bare with(…)