How To Be A Good Master
Yesterday I managed to steel some time out of my day to read this website’s statistics once more. Google Analytics does a smashing job of displaying vital information about how this website is being used. One of the phrases used to find this website was
. It struck me as interesting enough to write a little blurb about it. The reason why this phrase interests me so much is because I have not quite answered that question for myself, but I have found certain aspects in BDSM which seem to work well in controlling my slave.
General Thoughts
When I wrote my little article on making someone your slave I already touched on some of the basic traits you need to have therefore this text will be rather short. While I believe that patience is one key element of being a good Master another one is that you can accept to be adored. It sounds odd that one needs to learn how to deal with the adoration of someone they are tied into due to a relationship. Your slave’s adoration is more, it expands past anything a wife or a girlfriend could offer you.
Slave Adoration
I am often in a position where my slave explains to me, that she believes me to be smart, cunning and the best possible choice she could have made in her life, that I cannot possibly fail her and that all the doubts I have about my abilities are unfounded, that indeed I have become her, very personal, god.
While that is flattering and your first reaction might be to puff your chest and strut around proudly like a peacock you should stop and think. As a Master you need to continually improve your skills and the way you interact with your slave. You need to understand not only what you are doing but how you are doing it and in what way it will influence your slave.
Being Lazy
Being regarded as someone that as almost infallible you naturally put less focus on improving yourself, but that is the worst thing you can possibly do. It is important to mention that her adoration in you will only grow through once you show how dedicated you are to take her words into account and yet still improve yourself, taking a step further down the path of being a good Master for her. You should not allow yourself to be or get lazy, I would argue that one aspect of a good Master is the ability to find something to improve. Whether that is your understanding of bondage or anything else does not matter, you need to show just as much dedication as your slave shows towards you.
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Master,
i have only ever truly looked at O/our relationship through my slave eyes and so i find it enlightning to read Your words. i have often thought the accountability and responsibility a Master must accept may be challenging from time to time. i wish for You to know that i understand Your desires to continue to grow and learn and i hope W/we will continue to do so forever.
Your forever adoring slave and Your biggest fan,
~Your grace
If you have the time I’d like to use you as a resource for a story/novella I’m writing. It involves someone who has been drawn into the lifestyle and I think you may be able to help me with insights as to how to better develop this character. Please email me for more details if you are interested
I stumbled across your blog and I must say I really enjoyed this post. I will definitly visit again.
You seem to be the complete embodyment of the perfect Master. Please can You give me some tips as a slave how to support my new Master who seems to be struggling in His responsibilities. I worship Him and everything He does but for some reason He cannot accept my praise and adoration. I desperately need Him to see He is my personal God my reason for existing. How can I help Him stand strong as my Master?
Thank you for the compliment but I am hardly all that. I will think a little bit about your question and then write you an email with a more thorough explanation. In short though: I believe people are who they are, it would be very hard to turn your Master into something he is not. Skills can be learned, complete modification of ones natural behaviour is very hard, if not next to impossible for human beings.
To The Master
i must thank You for Your last post. my Master read it along with my words. When i came back from work He punished me ruthlessly for doubting Him. He has also said that if i really see Him as my God then i must worship Him. i don’t know where His sudden strength and confidence has come from but i am very grateful. He is proving to be the best Master i could ever hope for. Thank You.
slavegirl
Great site. I have quite accidentally stumbled onto a slave, I was not looking, I t was like finding cash in a pair of jeans I have not worn in a while. I have been going through your site so I can be successful and evolve. I am actually meeting her for the first time today and feel today will be easy since there will be all the excitement of the newness. I would greatly appreciate any advice, links, etc… so I can continually development and to have a reference when I hit a developing brick wall. I appreciate your time.