For those of you who come to this blog regularly you might recall what I said about patience and how it can help to train your slave. I am proud to report that my patience has recently paid off, because my slave has asked me to be less lenient with her. It might be hard to understand that type of logic and I would not ever put myself into a position where I thought that I fully understood it, but tight control and absolute obedience towards that control are things which drive my slave forward. 

Being Lenient

I am a strong believer in measured responses, as such I can always choose to what metric I am apply my measure. I have always been more than thoughtful towards my slave’s feelings, her emotional readiness towards a certain action and of course her overall state of mind. That something requires me to postpone or re-plan, when I have set out to do something but in the end it does not quit pan out the way that it should be. 

I am a lot more extreme in my application of perversion and kink, as such I have always had to “wait” for my slave to catch up. I am glad to say that this waiting period is over now. This is probably also reflected in the fact that I am starting to acquire more  explicit toys. Such as a lovely foxtail butt-plug and various head harnesses. These toys will serve to physically express what my slave has known for a very long time, that she craves tight control and that she wants to be held accountable for her actions, very strictly so.

The Impact

You might ask yourself what it means to loose this buffer of leniency and why I would care at all, after all this seems to indicate that I get much quicker to what I want. Something that I should be treasuring. In a way a do, on the other hand I know that this just increases my risk of failing her. When pushing limits, when demanding something for your own pleasure you need to be very aware of the capabilities of the mind you are dealing with. Think of it as a certain type o material, let us say a special steel. You need to be very sure to what forces you can expose that material, you need to know exactly when it is going to break, even more so when you do not spend hours and hours calculating, instead you just go by your belly, because it will preserve time and get you more quickly to where you want to go.

I think that my slave has admitted to herself that she is not made out of rubber, she is made out of steel, which means that she can take a lot more stress than I have ever submitted her to. I am very pleased that this development has started and I am even more pleased that I am a part of it. 

This will have an impact on what I expect from my slave, how I will react to certain topics, such as taking photographs of her or certain acts I will require her to perform. It also has an impact on how long I will wait until something is being done. One decision already having been shared on her web-log, a piercing that will nicely impact on her everyday life and remind her that she is my slave and always will be. 

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