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How to properly treat and train your property
On Being A Lady And a Slave
Author: Master6 Jul
Valued readers, once more I have to apologise for my inability to keep up with my blog. I wish I could put more effort into keeping everyone up-to-date. I have recently acquired a better hosting environments for the blogs and I am working diligently on moving this blog and my slave’s blog to the faster server. I will of course let you all know when the testing is done and the new machine is up and running. If everything goes well, this should be a transparent switch-over for all of you.
I feel that I have to set the record straight, not because my slave said something wrong in her post on why she aims to be a lady, but because I do not wish to be misunderstood.
I grew up with more women than men shaping my future, simply because my father died when I was very young and even though I have a loving stepfather he had left my education very much to my mother, her sisters and to no small extent to my grandmother. I have the greatest respect for women, I understand that they are equally capable of shaping and leading this world and I do not believe that women are inferior to men in any way shape or form when it comes to abstracts. Will a heavyweight boxer that is male, always beat a heavyweight boxer that is female, it seems very likely, and those distinctions I do make.
I was raised to be a gentlemen and to this very day I still insists on certain things that many of the younger readers might find odd. I insist on opening the car door for my slave to get in and out, I insist on opening doors she passes through and I insist on seating her at the table when we go out. I do these things not because I wish for her to perceive me as her servant in those matters, but because I claim them to be my right.
I have a right to do those things because I am male and that used to be expected by a well educated young man and I do not want our societies watered down norms to take that away from me.
When it comes to ladies, I feel it is the reverse. I love for my slave to express her freedom and to have no need to be constrained by what society expects from her, however as our societies values are deteriorating rather quickly, I appreciate the fact that she will always be someone that I can trust to behave perfectly.
That has nothing to do with being a lady though. To me that is simply knowing when you need to exhibit certain behaviours and what is acceptable at that very moment in time. I want my slave to by just that, my slave. But as my slave she will know exactly how to behave according to the situation she is in. That is my duty as her owner, I need to ensure that she understands that and I am the one to blame if she cannot deliver me that wish.
Luckily for me when it comes to behaviour in public my slave is already well trained and I see no reason why I would want to change any of that. I think I should enforce a little more femininity now and then but that is very seldom. I love the fact that my slave is not an artificial being clouded in a layer of make-up when she leaves the home for just a normal day out, but I do feel we need to work on the dressing up when it is not just a simple day out.
I want her to be the centre of attention, because I know that behind every great man there is an even greater woman. It is important to me to establish that understanding with her and of course with the people that she and I will meet together.
I want others to want her, whether that is my boss in a completely innocent setting or a fellow Dominant in the depths of a dungeon. I want my possession to be something desirable, something nations would wage war over and bold men would pick weapons up for. That is slightly idealistic, but it is still an exhilarating feeling when you can think about your slave that way and it that very moment your partner.
That has nothing to do with being a lady though. To me that is simply knowing when you need to exhibit certain behaviours and what is acceptable at that very moment in time. I want my slave to by just that, my slave. But as my slave she will know exactly how to behave according to the situation she is in. That is my duty as her owner, I need to ensure that she understands that and I am the one to blaim if she cannot deliver me that wish.
Luckily for me when it comes to behaviour in public my slave is already well trained and I see no reason why I would want to change any of that. I think I should encorce a little more femininity now and then but that is very seldom. I love the fact that my slave is not an artificial being clouded in a layer of make-up when she leaves the home for just a normal day out, but I do feel we need to work on the dressing up when it is not just a simple day out.
I want her to be the center of attention, because I know that behind every great man there is an even greater woman. It is important to me to establish that understanding with her and of course with the people that she and I will meet together.
I want others to want her, whether that is my boss in a completely innocent setting or a fellow Dominant in the depths of a dungeon. I want my possession to be something desirable, something nations would wage war over and bold men would pick weapons up for. That is slightly idealistic, but it is still an exhilarating feeling when you can think about your slave that way and it that very moment your partner.
Because I am not living in an utopia where it is socially acceptable to own my slave and literally have her be my possession, no matter how much she wants that, I have come to the realisation that my way to compensate for that is to turn her into something so desirable, that others simply want to participate. I want them to ask me how I did this and why it is possible for us to lead a life that is usually filled with nothing but excitement and adventure as we both grow together.
I want her to be able to behave like my fair lady, my bitch, my fuckholes, my pony, my maid, my toilett, but I aways want her to be my slave and my precious possession.
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i absolutely love your line of thinking. This is exactly what i had envisioned of what i wanted to be for my Master. i do earnestly wish that i could literally be owned by Master. The closest thing (which is far from the lifestyle) is matrimony. The problem that we run into is that most marriages these days are egalitarian. i would sooner slit my wrists and bleed out to a slow death than to be in a marriage that was “equal”. A fair amount of married folk are so involved in their own personal identities and goings on that the couple seems more to be like roommates with conjugal privileges.
In order to keep people tied to the Christian faith, most churches have watered down their doctrine. When i went to church as a kid, the sermons/homilies were focused on how a woman ought to serve her husband. i would think that God or whatever else runs the universe wanted all one gender with the same type of wiring and capabilities that (He/She/It) would have made everyone the same gender and able to procreate asexually.
i would absolutely love it if men would be men and women would no longer shun their uniqueness and not try to be a man. i think it is a horrible disservice when a man is hen-pecked by his partner. It whittles away at a man’s ego, and confidence.
Something, somewhere has got to change. Though people may nay-say that it is impossible that one day it will be impossible to own slaves publicly, keep this in mind, Christianity essentially started with 13 people and is now a HUGE religion.
i commend the efforts you and your slave have taken to make sure people can make an informed decision about the life they want for themselves, as well as maybe coming around to see the beauty of the life that Masters and slaves live.