How to be a good Mas­ter, how to be a good dom­in­ant, it could be summed up in a mil­lion words and some­times only a few are enough. I have been pon­der­ing for a long time whether this should be shared or not, but I have finally decided that it is safe to do so. For me, what you are about to hear, not only tells me I am a good Mas­ter to my slave, but also allows me to bask in the slow glow of what it means to own a ded­ic­ated and devoted slave.

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What makes this spe­cial to me, are not the chosen words, but how it is being said. The ded­ic­a­tion and devo­tion which you can hear not only in the tone of voice, but also by read­ing between the lines. I have to thank mod­ern tech­no­logy for cap­tur­ing this moment, because oth­er­wise I would not be in a pos­i­tion to share it with you. I chose to share it for a very simple reason. BDSM is not about for­cing someone into some­thing they do not want. BDSM is also not about pre­tend­ing to do some­thing for somone because you love them so much. To me BDSM is about deov­tion for one another and inex­pli­cibly trust­ing one another.

Those words make me happy because it is clear to me that my slave trusts me enough to share her inner most need with me and that she trusts me to con­trol her and myself enough so that we can together share these moments over and over again. There is noth­ing staged or faked about it, this is simply a genu­ine exchange between me and her.

I want you all to listen to this and to listen well, because I doubt that any­one under duress, any­one that is merely pre­tend­ing would be able to say it with that much con­vi­cition. Mas­ter and slave rela­tion­ships are some­thing that is very real and I would hope that soci­ety is slowly warm­ing up to the idea of con­sen­sual slavery and Total Power Exchange.

The psy­cho­logy of a Mas­ter and slave rela­tion­ship is some­thing that has fas­cin­ated me for a very long time and I will make sure to research a little more and then post on the topic. Maybe, just maybe, this little clip will allow you a glimpse into our world. You are more than wel­come to peek.