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I know that I love the lifestye that I have chosen to indulge in together with my slave. I also know that many people out there are curious about kink, about BDSM and some of them are curious about Total Power Exchange and the relationship a Master and a slave have.

To some there is a notion that these desires to learn more are dirty or wrong, that it is immoral and that bad things would happen if others found out about it. There are many web-sites where you can read about topics and gather a lot of information on techniques and ideas, but there is little offered to interact with lifestylers in an interactive manner that is safe and anonymous.

From today on that is history. You are all invited to ask your questions. You can ask questions which only regard myself, you can ask questions which only my slave will answer and you can ask up as Master/slave(…)

Everyone has seen them and many know what they do. The familiar “beep” when one passes over the reader at the cash register often rings in our ears and in Europe they are called EAN on the back of a book ISBN. Whatever you call them, they are those lovel dark black lines with a number underneath on the back of a good or on the back of a book. IN the BDSM world this has been exploited as a marking by the slave register. Once registered and assigned your certificate you can actually download a PDF with your generated barcode which will translate to your number on the certificate.

Numbers are a little bleak though, no one likes to be a number and you are quite restricted in what you can express, unless you all of a sudden start talking in binary code. The industray has recognised this a long time ago and thought of a clever way on how to connect(…)

This installment of BDSM 101 introduced the crop and the pleasures of using it. As always, please consider learning about the toys your use and especially with blunt force objects you need to know what you are doing.

I do hope that you enjoy this strip, it is a little simpler than the ones you might be used to and not as out there on the edge of perversion but definately it depicts one of the most favourite activities of BDSM I enjoy.

Those of you who read my slave’s wonderful web-site will be quite aware that she has been progressing nicely and that we have had a lovely time together in Toronto. Not all of it was spent doing things that she cherishes or actually craves in the first place, but all of them seem to have brought our relationship forward.

I am confronted with a sentence that goes a little bit like this more often than less:

That is not fair, Master!

Looking at the situations in hindsight in which that sentence was used, I would say that was a fair (ha ha ha) assessment of the situation.

The relationship that we lead is not about me being fair, about me balancing my slave’s wishes and needs perfectly, our relationship is about what I want, what I need, what I allow to happen and sometimes that does not need to be fair. Before all of the slightly feministicly tinged readers of my blog now go into anaphylactic(…)