Masters, slaves — I Challenge You To an Interview
Dear Readers.
I have returned from molesting my slave and it has come to my attention that there is much better interactivity on her web-site than on mine. I wonder whether that is because I am being perceived as the dominant half or whether people find it intimidating to post a comment on my site. It could of course be that my web-site is just not as interesting, but I would like to not entertain that possibility.
Step Up!
I want to create more interactivity and I think it is unfair to only have my opinion portrait on this web-site. I want others to pitch in and I want to be able to offer a variety of opinions on Masters and their slaves and the relationships we all lead. I will of course continue to write about myself and my slave, but this is a chance for you to step up and be heard. Do not be shy, if you feel you need to be anonymous, then I will arrange for that. You can choose between
* written interviews
* audio interviews
* video interviews
and if you are close to London I would be more than happy to meet up and conduct the interview in person.
It is important that we quit hiding and that more information on the lifestyle becomes readily available. At the moment there seem to be many people who read and passively take in information, but no one speaks out, which makes it look as if we are a complete minority.
I know that many people are kinky, I know that many are curious and the stigma of this being something dirty or wrong needs to be removed. That can be done by talking, by ensuring that people perceive our conversations as sane.
What To Talk About?
I am most interested in hearing about other Master and slave relationships. I would love to discuss the point of view on their relationship, you can also suggest a topic and we shall speak on that. If you are unowned or do not own a slave, then let us have a tak about how you perceive BDSM or M/s. I believe that we need to foster a culture of proper journalism and thus provide a better service to our community. If only one of you readers is willing to come forward and speak, then I feel I have done something good.
Interested
I hope you are interested, if you are, just leave a comment on this post and I will get back to you using Email, so that we can make further arrangement. I am looking forward to a multitude of comments. Talk to me, talk to the community!
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I don’t think it is because your site is less interesting or looked as the dominant one. I personally find your slave’s blog more heartfelt…should I say.
It’s is the fascination that someone would completely love and devote themselves like she has to you.
I read both of your entries…I honestly just gravitate more toward hers. Maybe it is because I am a woman. I am not sure.
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I completely agree that we need to talk and be open about our relationships. Allow people to see that our relationships can be healthy, caring and freeing. As with the GLBT community the more we come out the easier it will be for people to start accepting us. Its just hard to take that first step and share openly when people have such judgment against M/s relationships.
Thank you for your contribution to our community.
Respectfully,
Ms
i am sorry i have posted a fair amount of comments on your slave’s diary, but not yours. i had to ask my Master’s permission prior to speaking with you. Had He not been shipped out, He had planned to ask you personally if it were alright if your slave and i correspond through email (as well as her blog).
My Master has read both your diary and your slave’s. He enjoys both diaries. When He has time i am certain that He will post comments (time permitting of course).
i do have some speculation as to why your slave gets more comments. Please forgive me if i overstep my bounds (especially as i have not corresponded with you).
First, i believe your slave’s blog gives off a sense of vulnerability. She is embarking on an adventure and pushing herself past limits. It’s the genuine stuff that crappy reality television shows try to duplicate (unsuccessfully).
Though you are not my master, i do find it a bit intimidating to approach you. You are obviously very intelligent and i enjoy your blog, but i am generally discouraged from corresponding with other males, especially if my Master has not conversed with them.
If most masters/dominants are male, most males do not sit around writing notes of encouragement to other males. It is hard enough to get them to write a love letter or write something on a grocery list.
My Master checks your blog several times a day to see if you posted. Honestly, i do as well. i want to be clued into why He has a huge smile on His face. He has gotten many ideas from your blog.
i know that there are people who would respond to your blog, but they are afraid to openly because of the sensitivity of their employment. These individuals are so afraid that their employer is watching their every move (with good reason) that they come to Master’s house and log into my account so that it will not show that they were on this site.
As i have posted to your slave’s blog, Master and i used to have companion blogs, but i received some really negative backlash from the vanilla world and piggish men.
It is a shame that in a day where people are supporting transgendered people, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals that masters and slaves are forced underground.
i really do enjoy your blog. If i think of any more suggestions, i will let you know. i hope this helped some.
Respectfully,
jerusha
You have set up a feed for your slave’s blog and i have subscribed to it for both entries and comments and went to do the same for your blog but it said that feature was not working. i don’t know if it was deliberate or unintentional but i thought i would alert you in case it was not intentional.
Respectfully,
jerusha
jerusha
Thank you for bringing up the feed situation. I will speak with my Master, in case he does not see your comment and let him know. I am computer illiterate and so I am uncertain as to how that all works but I will let him know and ask him to either answer himself or do so for him.
I think you are correct as to why the lack of responses. I also mentioned that I am a woman and I find more people read women slave/submissive blogs far more than men. I think your comments are eye openers and I will speak with Master about your ideas.
I am also most certain Master will get a good chuckle knowing your Master has appreciated some of his ideas to stimulate his own.
Thank you for opening yourself to both Master and myself.
I look forward to hearing from you more often.
In warmth,
~His grace
Hi, I find both yours and your slave’s blog interesting, and I would be more than happy to discuss ideas and trhoughts on my dynamic with my Master. I have the unusual position that I am a switch and an owned slave. Contradiction…sometimes! It makes for a fun life!
My Master is not that interested in online/email discussion but knows I enjoy it and as long as I run everything past him will not mind me discussing our relationship.
Please feel free to mail me at your earliest convinience. I only live 40 miles outside London too…but am restricted by family commitments to when I can be out of the home.
best wishes
Mistress_ Mephisto
Ask away…W/we get relatively few comments on MJ’s blog, too…compared to the number of readers. i am always curious why people stay and read for so long but don’t bother to comment.
But if you do wish to interview another M/s pair…i will be happy to answer any questions you might have. i do better in writing…i prefer to have an opportunity to think about my answers.
~MJ’s slave nik
I was surfing the web for BDSM stuffs and I found this article absolutely blood-boiling! I thought I would share this with you. The following article was written in response to why the media only portrays females as Doms instead of male/female doms.
I don’t know why the difference, I find pictures of women holding a whip absolutely repulsive and I can think of many much more enjoyable things I would like to do with a woman.
I see previous answers have trotted out the great defence of BDSM, ‘people who don’t like it don’t understand’, are ‘immature’ and even ‘unenlightened’. What arrogance!
I don’t like Paedophilia, is there something I am missing there too?
Just because people find BDSM repulsive, it doesn’t follow that they don’t understand. It’s perfectly valid to hold the opinion that someone who gets turned on by violent sex has got something wrong in their head.
The United Nations World Health Organisation categorises sexual sadism and sexual masochism as mental health and behavioural disorder in the international classification of diseases handbook (ICD10). Are they Immature and unenlightened too?
The whole thing boils down to the fact that some sad sacks who get turned on by abusing, humiliating and brutalising women have invented this mystical fabrication called BDSM which excuses the brutality in their eyes, and sadly in the eyes of some women.
If it wasn’t for a few people believing this nonsense, men who abuse to turn themselves on would be known by their true name
The accused.
Edit
Starlight
It’s worse than that.
I do understand.
Why do I understand? Because I did find the person to inspire me. The one. And I know they felt the same way too but a friend introduced them to sadists and guess what? They ended up in an abusive relationship some sick sad sack who gets turned on humiliating abusing and brutalising women.
And before you jump to a conclusion, no they had no ‘Longing’ before sadism poisoned their mind. Quite the opposite In fact, we found it odd and slightly amusing when the subject of sadism came up. Long story short they got chatting to sadists, ironically when I raised concerns I was told that they felt ‘safe’, I was dumped, and the person I knew no longer existed. Why do you think this is?
My opinion is that sadism acts exactly like a cult, and recruited someone who had no interest in it, to make them the plaything of abusers. A piece of meat to be used and past on. Don’t you ever wonder why abusive relationships within sadism rarely last?
Yes sadism has lasted for centuries; it is named after the Marquis de Sade who first documented his warped desires. Someone I might add who spent most of his adult life in mental institutions and prison because his preferences where so offensive, as have many sadists throughout history.
So you see, its not a case of ‘not understanding’ (again) I understand perfectly what sadists are about. I have read all the dogma and all the excuses, however I use scepticism and I find it full of contradictions and deliberate deceit like all cults.
That’s why I come here and give my opinion, every one is allowed to hold an opinion arn’t they?
Except by cults that is.