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	<title>Comments on: How To Unleash The Bastard In Me</title>
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		<title>By: RowanJade</title>
		<link>http://herowner.com/2008/08/21/unleash-the-bastard/comment-page-1/#comment-209</link>
		<dc:creator>RowanJade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 04:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me the whole point is that my Master may do what he wishes, at the end of the day I am lucky to have him. I am a new and unexperienced slave, still learning and I found this blog while trying to learn to please him.  

We do have problems where I feel mentally and physically can not respond how my Master wishes. As I am quite new to being a slave, to totally submit is a challange and a joy. Now and again, as you said of yours, I stumble, but Master withdraws and then pushes me a little further each time. I have felt more joy and pleasure in the last few months then in my entire life.

I am lucky in that my (new and first) master sees me daily at work, as a strong independent women. He finds it amusing to occasionally switch from our &#039;work&#039; selves to our reality, switching voice or look. It keeps some element of control still in my life and means he respects me as a person, while I know he can get control at any point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me the whole point is that my Master may do what he wishes, at the end of the day I am lucky to have him. I am a new and unexperienced slave, still learning and I found this blog while trying to learn to please him.  </p>
<p>We do have problems where I feel mentally and physically can not respond how my Master wishes. As I am quite new to being a slave, to totally submit is a challange and a joy. Now and again, as you said of yours, I stumble, but Master withdraws and then pushes me a little further each time. I have felt more joy and pleasure in the last few months then in my entire life.</p>
<p>I am lucky in that my (new and first) master sees me daily at work, as a strong independent women. He finds it amusing to occasionally switch from our ‘work’ selves to our reality, switching voice or look. It keeps some element of control still in my life and means he respects me as a person, while I know he can get control at any point.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 08:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>would youenjoy beating the shit out of her? and so  she could also?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>would youenjoy beating the shit out of her? and so  she could also?</p>
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		<title>By: His grace</title>
		<link>http://herowner.com/2008/08/21/unleash-the-bastard/comment-page-1/#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>His grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 03:39:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Master of Venice

I so often feel selfish because Master gives selflessly to me all the time and so rarely permits me to give more.

I believe it is easy to become lost in another persons pleasure. Especially when we love that someone.

In warmth,

~His grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Master of Venice</p>
<p>I so often feel selfish because Master gives selflessly to me all the time and so rarely permits me to give more.</p>
<p>I believe it is easy to become lost in another persons pleasure. Especially when we love that someone.</p>
<p>In warmth,</p>
<p>~His grace</p>
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		<title>By: Master Of Venice</title>
		<link>http://herowner.com/2008/08/21/unleash-the-bastard/comment-page-1/#comment-108</link>
		<dc:creator>Master Of Venice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 07:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It may sound ironic, but there are times that I am so caught up in training or using my Slave that I actually forget to allow myself pleasure, to follow my own desires; the focus is so clearly on her development and training or pleasure. In these times I fall into a &#039;teacher&#039; mode where the slave/pupil is the focus, and &#039;my wishes&#039; are transformed into a series of sensual and sexual experiences primarily designed with her pain or pleasure in mind. In a word, I lose myself in her. It is this empathic bond that transforms me, attracts me. 

Of course there are times when really, its all about me. 

Thanks for the blog(s). They are endlessly fascinating.

M.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It may sound ironic, but there are times that I am so caught up in training or using my Slave that I actually forget to allow myself pleasure, to follow my own desires; the focus is so clearly on her development and training or pleasure. In these times I fall into a ‘teacher’ mode where the slave/pupil is the focus, and ‘my wishes’ are transformed into a series of sensual and sexual experiences primarily designed with her pain or pleasure in mind. In a word, I lose myself in her. It is this empathic bond that transforms me, attracts me. </p>
<p>Of course there are times when really, its all about me. </p>
<p>Thanks for the blog(s). They are endlessly fascinating.</p>
<p>M.</p>
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		<title>By: His grace</title>
		<link>http://herowner.com/2008/08/21/unleash-the-bastard/comment-page-1/#comment-103</link>
		<dc:creator>His grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 06:36:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jerusha
you are very generous with your compliments, thank you. You humble me with your expressions.

I too have always required a strong, dominant partner.  I need someone who will &quot;put me in my place&quot; yet always respect and love me.  

Master waited for me to ask for more, to ask for a firm hand and less lenient expectations.  I was a willful slave and to some degree, still am.  I did not bend gently like a willow tree, I definitely was that old oak one, almost unwilling to move.  Thankfully Master has patience and does love me exceptionally so and has guided me and encouraged me to the point where I ask now for more rules, more restrictions, more guidelines.  

I must agree with you jerusha, I am very lucky to have found him.

In warmth,
~His grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jerusha<br />
you are very generous with your compliments, thank you. You humble me with your expressions.</p>
<p>I too have always required a strong, dominant partner.  I need someone who will “put me in my place” yet always respect and love me.  </p>
<p>Master waited for me to ask for more, to ask for a firm hand and less lenient expectations.  I was a willful slave and to some degree, still am.  I did not bend gently like a willow tree, I definitely was that old oak one, almost unwilling to move.  Thankfully Master has patience and does love me exceptionally so and has guided me and encouraged me to the point where I ask now for more rules, more restrictions, more guidelines.  </p>
<p>I must agree with you jerusha, I am very lucky to have found him.</p>
<p>In warmth,<br />
~His grace</p>
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		<title>By: jerusha</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerusha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 00:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a slave, i would rather my Master be stricter with me than lenient. He does know what is best for me. Sometimes, i push the envelope to see if He will let it slide or if He will discipline me. There have been times (early in our relationship) that He would let things slide. i need someone who will be strong enough to put me in my place. i could never serve a man who was too weak to hold me in check.

i do not see your demeanor as abusive at all. i am happy that you are strong enough to care for your slave the way she ought. She is a really intelligent and beautiful woman with a very big heart. You are both very lucky to have each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a slave, i would rather my Master be stricter with me than lenient. He does know what is best for me. Sometimes, i push the envelope to see if He will let it slide or if He will discipline me. There have been times (early in our relationship) that He would let things slide. i need someone who will be strong enough to put me in my place. i could never serve a man who was too weak to hold me in check.</p>
<p>i do not see your demeanor as abusive at all. i am happy that you are strong enough to care for your slave the way she ought. She is a really intelligent and beautiful woman with a very big heart. You are both very lucky to have each other.</p>
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		<title>By: His grace</title>
		<link>http://herowner.com/2008/08/21/unleash-the-bastard/comment-page-1/#comment-93</link>
		<dc:creator>His grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 06:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Master

Your journal speaks volumes and as I read it I could definitely feel some laughter peeking through the corners of my mouth for I do know I stomp my feet and growl sometimes just like a little chihuahua - feisty but easily controlled.

I love You Master and I do trust You but as You know, sometimes I need a little extra reassurance.

Always,
~Your grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Master</p>
<p>Your journal speaks volumes and as I read it I could definitely feel some laughter peeking through the corners of my mouth for I do know I stomp my feet and growl sometimes just like a little chihuahua — feisty but easily controlled.</p>
<p>I love You Master and I do trust You but as You know, sometimes I need a little extra reassurance.</p>
<p>Always,<br />
~Your grace</p>
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		<title>By: viemoira</title>
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		<dc:creator>viemoira</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a submissive female i can honestly say that i firmly believe if a slave has the right Master for her then more often then not the Master knows what is best for the slave far better than she does. A true submissive&#039;s nature is to make others happy and therefore often they simply cannot see what is in their best interests. Thanks for sharing this post and more power to you! *pun intended* 
~viemoira</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a submissive female i can honestly say that i firmly believe if a slave has the right Master for her then more often then not the Master knows what is best for the slave far better than she does. A true submissive’s nature is to make others happy and therefore often they simply cannot see what is in their best interests. Thanks for sharing this post and more power to you! *pun intended*<br />
~viemoira</p>
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