We have always owned a pleth­ora of toys. Most of them are pro­fes­sion­ally made toys my slave and I acquired over the years for vari­ous reas­ons. Some of them were gifts and oth­ers merely bought for reas­ons of curi­os­ity. Some of the toys are not usable with my slave at the moment for simple reason of not fit­ting quite right at this point in time. I have always enjoyed toys and I believe that they can enhance a rela­tion­ship regard­less of it being kinky or not. Vibrat­ors, dildos, restraints and other toys are not only help­ful when devel­op­ing devi­ant thoughts, it also allows one to think out­side of the box.

Every­day items can be turned into toys, a stroll through the super mar­ket or the hard­ware store can cause you to come up with new ways of using the pvc pipe you just bought. I like the idea of toys and I adore using toys. I use them with my slave and I now use them with kaja. Our inter­ac­tion with kaja is cur­rently centred around what I will call les­sons. These les­sons are spe­cific­ally designed to teach her more about a cer­tain topic and to expand the hori­zon she is famil­iar with.

I util­ize toys in those les­sons and I also decided to cre­ate new toys for these par­tic­u­lar les­sons. At the moment I am dab­bling in cre­at­ing new and inter­est­ing impact toys. Everything from mak­ing a fibre­glass cane out of the end of a drive way marker to think­ing about put­ting a golf ball into a ten­nis ball, which will then be glued to a string of rope. Some of the toys have been cre­ated to sat­isfy my own curi­os­ity, oth­ers are being cre­ated because kaja has a desire to bruise. She does not bruise eas­ily and her marks fade rather quickly, so I am inter­ested in devel­op­ing bet­ter tools which will give a nice, deep bruise. Blunt impact toys which have a con­cen­trated weight to them have worked best for me. Fur­ther­more I want the toy to cause impact through its own accel­er­a­tion and rather than me hav­ing to use force I want the momentum to do all the work for me.

I recently fin­ished our spanking/fucking bench and I have worked on some­thing akin to a strap­ping board today. Those lar­ger toys, along with the pul­ley sys­tem and the bond­age cross down­stairs will come in very handy to rein­force kaja’s status in this house.  The toys I cre­ate are by no means exclus­ive to either kaja or my slave. I want and I will use them on my slave just as much as i will enjoy using them on her. I know that there might be some toys spe­cific to pain which will be reserved for kaja but they will be the only exception.

I can only stress again that toys are a good way of keep­ing your­self excited. Espe­cially when you take the time to think about cre­at­ing new toys for your­self. I am pon­der­ing how to build a wax drop­per which will enable me to drip wax over my slave or kaja.  I am pon­der­ing how I can accom­plish such a feat, as it is more com­plic­ated than what I have had to build so far. It would either have to be a double pipe sys­tem where the inner pipe is sur­roun­ded by hot water or a sys­tem where the cop­per pip­ing itself is heated up to more than 60 degree Celsius. Keep­ing my brain busy and pon­der­ing what I can do with the toy once it is fin­ished is not only fun, it keeps me engaged and chal­lenges me every time I think about it. I strongly believe that learn­ing how to build and use your toys makes you a bet­ter Mas­ter, if not a smarter human being.

The hood and binder with the leg straps shown on kaja in this post, are not only pretty to look at they are both very func­tional too. It is easy to restrain her without her arms or hands going numb and the leg straps pull her flesh into a pos­i­tion where she is read­ily access­ible. Whether that is for fuck­ing, stuff­ing her holes or simply hurt­ing her flesh with the hand or toys. The hood is very tight and thus not only hugs her flesh it also dehu­man­izes her a little, thus mak­ing her even more of a toy. As time pro­gresses and kaja decides how much more she wants out of our inter­ac­tions the amount of apparel she will wear will sure increase. Espe­cially once we dive into the areas around pup­py­girl play and other fet­ishes. There are many latex, leather and rub­ber stores which will want me as a cus­tomer in the future and at the moment I have two lovely women to clad in such mater­i­als. I am look­ing for­ward to what is to come, because I am hav­ing fun already and I know it will only get better.