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Asscunt Gaping — Revisited Again

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Rectal Dilator Kit

My reg­u­lar read­ers might recog­nise the pic­ture shown in this art­icle. The rectal dilator kit has been a trus­ted com­pan­ion in the train­ing of my slave’s asscunt. When we vis­ited North­bound Leather with kaja, I chose to buy a kit for her as well along with her “ninja mask”.

I enjoy play­ing and using a well trained asscunt and because my cock is not all too small it is often a neces­sity for me to ensure that the one I play with is prop­erly trained. Much more for my own pleas­ure than hers, yet also to ensure that this type of play is per­ceived as being pleas­ur­able.
Even if it might take a while until kaja might be allowed the pleas­ure of hav­ing my cock inside her, it is still a neces­sity for the use of toys or other imple­ments. Well trained holes make her a more use­ful toy and that train­ing ensures that she enjoys whatever tor­ture we might choose to throw her way.

Draw­ing on my exper­i­ence with my slave I came up with a 14 week train­ing sched­ule which will start next Monday on the 26th of Novem­ber 2009. The sched­ule has been reviewed with my slave as I wanted to draw on her first hand exper­i­ence with the train­ing she already has had.

kaja’s sched­ule

Week One: (smal­lest plug)

  1. First Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 1 hour, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One Hour dur­ing the day; One Hour in the evening.

Week Two: (smal­lest Plug)

  1. First Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 3 Hours, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One Hour dur­ing the day; Two Hours in the evening.

Week Three: (Plug num­ber two)

  1. First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 30 minutes dur­ing the day; 15 minutes in the evening.

Week Four: (Plug num­ber two)

  1. First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 2 Hours, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One Hour dur­ing the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.

Week Five: (Plug num­ber three)

  1. First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 30 minutes dur­ing the day; 15 minutes in the evening.

Week Six: (Plug num­ber three)

  1. First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 1 Hour, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One Hour dur­ing the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.

Week Seven: (Plug num­ber four)

  1. First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 30 minutes dur­ing the day; 15 minutes in the evening.

Week Eight: (Plug num­ber four)

  1. First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 1 Hour, in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: No Training.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One Hour dur­ing the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.

Week Nine: (Go back to Plug num­ber three)

  1. First Day: 2 hours in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 2 hours in the evening.
  3. Third Day:  2 hours in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 2 hours in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 2 hours in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: 30 minutes in the evening.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 2 hours dur­ing the day, 1 hours in the evening.

Week Ten: (Go back to Plug num­ber three)

  1. First Day: 3 hours in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 3 hours in the evening.
  3. Third Day:  3 hours in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 3 hours in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 3 hours in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: 1 hour in the evening.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 2 hours dur­ing the day, 2 hours in the evening.

Week Eleven: (Go back to Plug num­ber four)

  1. First Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: 30 minutes in the evening.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 90 minutes dur­ing the day, 30 minutes in the evening.

Week Twelve: (Go back to Plug num­ber four)

  1. First Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
  2. Second Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
  3. Third Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
  4. Fourth Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
  5. Fifth Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
  6. Sixth Day: 1 hour in the evening.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 90 minutes dur­ing the day, 1 hour in the evening.

Week Thir­teen: (Plug num­ber four)

  1. First Day: 4 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  2. Second Day: 4 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  3. Third Day: 4 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  4. Fourth Day: 4 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  5. Fifth Day: 4 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  6. Sixth Day: 2 hours con­tinu­ously any­time you wish.
  7. Sev­enth Day: One full day from wak­ing up to going to bed.

Week Four­teen: (Plug num­ber Five)

  1. First Day: 5 minutes anytime.
  2. Second Day: 5 minutes anytime.
  3. Third Day: 15 minutes anytime.
  4. Fourth Day: 15 minutes anytime.
  5. Fifth Day: 15 minutes anytime.
  6. Sixth Day: 5 minutes anytime.
  7. Sev­enth Day: 30 minutes anytime.

My slave and I under­stand that this is a very for­giv­ing sched­ule. We might have to adjust the train­ing based on the pro­gress that is being made. The last thing we would want is for kaja to be bored.

This is a mile­stone for me as it marks the first occur­rence of train­ing regime where I am more inter­ested in pure res­ults other than what that train­ing will do to grow the indi­vidual as a human being. While all the train­ing with my slave is meant to ulti­mately bene­fit me, it is also given out of love and care. I want her to grow as a human being and suc­ceed in her life as my slave. I care about kaja’s emo­tions, their integ­rity is para­mount to me. This train­ing serves a slightly dif­fer­ent pur­pose though. Emo­tion­ally it is not meant to grow her, even though it might. This is purely about train­ing her flesh to be of bet­ter use to my slave and me. To make her a bet­ter toy, a bet­ter pet. As a sec­ond­ary goal it is meant to ensure that she under­stand that once she com­mits to some­thing she has asked for her­self (yes she has begged for this train­ing), she has to deliver. I will only judge her on how hard she tries. This sched­ule is final. There is no room for fail­ure and none of her other events in her life are an excuse to not com­plete this agreed upon train­ing. I am sure kaja will report on it now and then and I will make sure to do so as well.

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3 Comments

  1. Very well designed. What exactly are the specs of your toolkit ?

    I am inter­ested to know why you go back to num­ber 3 after using 4.. is there some­thing I am miss­ing here ?

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    • No, you are not miss­ing any­thing. We have found that the gap from going between third and fourth plug seems to be a size dif­fer­ence where the muscle really has to work. So I am giv­ing the muscle a chance to relax a little before actu­ally going back and try­ing the big­ger one. That way overly fatiguing the muscle is not an issue. The set itself and all the details can be found on xtreme restraints web-site.

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  2. You are cor­rect. I have this set and found that I only needed the first one for a few days, the second not much longer than that, and am most com­fort­able with the third. The fourth is still a chal­lenge for me. I had to get a sep­ar­ate, softer plug with a more defined handle for mov­ing about with some­thing in, as these have an annoy­ing tend­ency to slip out. Clean­ing them also requires a qtip for the very end but all in all they work beau­ti­fully. Good luck!

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