My regular readers might recognise the picture shown in this article. The rectal dilator kit has been a trusted companion in the training of my slave’s asscunt. When we visited Northbound Leather with kaja, I chose to buy a kit for her as well along with her “ninja mask“.
I enjoy playing and using a well trained asscunt and because my cock is not all too small it is often a necessity for me to ensure that the one I play with is properly trained. Much more for my own pleasure than hers, yet also to ensure that this type of play is perceived as being pleasurable.
Even if it might take a while until kaja might be allowed the pleasure of having my cock inside her, it is still a necessity for the use of toys or other implements. Well trained holes make her a more useful toy and that training ensures that she enjoys whatever torture we might choose to throw her way.
Drawing on my experience with my slave I came up with a 14 week training schedule which will start next Monday on the 26th of November 2009. The schedule has been reviewed with my slave as I wanted to draw on her first hand experience with the training she already has had.
kaja‘s schedule
Week One: (smallest plug)
- First Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 1 hour, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No training.
- Seventh Day: One Hour during the day; One Hour in the evening.
Week Two: (smallest Plug)
- First Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 90 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 3 Hours, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No training.
- Seventh Day: One Hour during the day; Two Hours in the evening.
Week Three: (Plug number two)
- First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: 30 minutes during the day; 15 minutes in the evening.
Week Four: (Plug number two)
- First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 2 Hours, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: One Hour during the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.
Week Five: (Plug number three)
- First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: 30 minutes during the day; 15 minutes in the evening.
Week Six: (Plug number three)
- First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 1 Hour, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: One Hour during the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.
Week Seven: (Plug number four)
- First Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 15 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 30 minutes, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: 30 minutes during the day; 15 minutes in the evening.
Week Eight: (Plug number four)
- First Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Second Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Third Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 45 minutes, in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 1 Hour, in the evening.
- Sixth Day: No Training.
- Seventh Day: One Hour during the day; 30 minutes, in the evening.
Week Nine: (Go back to Plug number three)
- First Day: 2 hours in the evening.
- Second Day: 2 hours in the evening.
- Third Day: 2 hours in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 2 hours in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 2 hours in the evening.
- Sixth Day: 30 minutes in the evening.
- Seventh Day: 2 hours during the day, 1 hours in the evening.
Week Ten: (Go back to Plug number three)
- First Day: 3 hours in the evening.
- Second Day: 3 hours in the evening.
- Third Day: 3 hours in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 3 hours in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 3 hours in the evening.
- Sixth Day: 1 hour in the evening.
- Seventh Day: 2 hours during the day, 2 hours in the evening.
Week Eleven: (Go back to Plug number four)
- First Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
- Second Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
- Third Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 90 minutes in the evening.
- Sixth Day: 30 minutes in the evening.
- Seventh Day: 90 minutes during the day, 30 minutes in the evening.
Week Twelve: (Go back to Plug number four)
- First Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
- Second Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
- Third Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
- Fourth Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
- Fifth Day: 150 minutes in the evening.
- Sixth Day: 1 hour in the evening.
- Seventh Day: 90 minutes during the day, 1 hour in the evening.
Week Thirteen: (Plug number four)
- First Day: 4 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Second Day: 4 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Third Day: 4 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Fourth Day: 4 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Fifth Day: 4 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Sixth Day: 2 hours continuously anytime you wish.
- Seventh Day: One full day from waking up to going to bed.
Week Fourteen: (Plug number Five)
- First Day: 5 minutes anytime.
- Second Day: 5 minutes anytime.
- Third Day: 15 minutes anytime.
- Fourth Day: 15 minutes anytime.
- Fifth Day: 15 minutes anytime.
- Sixth Day: 5 minutes anytime.
- Seventh Day: 30 minutes anytime.
My slave and I understand that this is a very forgiving schedule. We might have to adjust the training based on the progress that is being made. The last thing we would want is for kaja to be bored.
This is a milestone for me as it marks the first occurrence of training regime where I am more interested in pure results other than what that training will do to grow the individual as a human being. While all the training with my slave is meant to ultimately benefit me, it is also given out of love and care. I want her to grow as a human being and succeed in her life as my slave. I care about kaja’s emotions, their integrity is paramount to me. This training serves a slightly different purpose though. Emotionally it is not meant to grow her, even though it might. This is purely about training her flesh to be of better use to my slave and me. To make her a better toy, a better pet. As a secondary goal it is meant to ensure that she understand that once she commits to something she has asked for herself (yes she has begged for this training), she has to deliver. I will only judge her on how hard she tries. This schedule is final. There is no room for failure and none of her other events in her life are an excuse to not complete this agreed upon training. I am sure kaja will report on it now and then and I will make sure to do so as well.

Very well designed. What exactly are the specs of your toolkit ?
I am interested to know why you go back to number 3 after using 4.. is there something I am missing here ?
No, you are not missing anything. We have found that the gap from going between third and fourth plug seems to be a size difference where the muscle really has to work. So I am giving the muscle a chance to relax a little before actually going back and trying the bigger one. That way overly fatiguing the muscle is not an issue. The set itself and all the details can be found on xtreme restraints web-site.
You are correct. I have this set and found that I only needed the first one for a few days, the second not much longer than that, and am most comfortable with the third. The fourth is still a challenge for me. I had to get a separate, softer plug with a more defined handle for moving about with something in, as these have an annoying tendency to slip out. Cleaning them also requires a qtip for the very end but all in all they work beautifully. Good luck!