Her Owner

photo credit: ilovememphis/ As a community of smart individuals we would be foolish to believe that there is no abuse in the BDSM lifestyle. Due to the nature of our interactions and the many individuals I have met who participate in this lifestyle I believe that we are even more prone to abuse than most other relationship and lifestyle choices out there. While physical abuse is probably the most visible form, I would stipulate that emotional abuse is far more common within our lifestyle. Any form of abuse is unacceptable and I wanted to speak out on the topic as  [ Read More ]

photo credit: Martin Selva I have been asked on my “Ask Me Questions” page to write an article explaining how I use my voice to control my slave. That is an excellent topic and I will assume that it is different for any BDSM dynamic out there. I am not a very loud person, I can get upset and I sometimes raise my voice, yet usually that happens as an outlet for energy and not as something that represents my current state of mind. I am not big on actually commanding someone to do something. I will usually ask, even  [ Read More ]