Hello my dear readers. To those of you who actually come back to read my web-site I must apologise. I have been unable to post for a while, because I have been busily visiting my slave. Yes, I am in Canada and I am having a lovely time putting all that theory I always preach into actual practice. Today my little slut has to work, so this is my chance to catch up and gather my thoughts.While we were visiting some of her friends which happen to be associated with the lifestyle as well, an interesting situation occurred. There is no need to expound on the specifics, but allow me to share a general point of view, something I have always stuck to.

Expectations

Expectations allows us to shape the future in a way that we can meet a certain goal. Slaves I have communicated with always assumed to have very clear directions on what their expectations were. This might stem from the fact(…)

My words are written down in the hopes of others finding them in some way amusing or helpful. I realise that this web-site can only become better by inviting others to comment, ask questions and give me hints on what is interesting to my small, but highly qualified, community of readers. To stay in touch and to leave comments on my post I am now inviting all of you to register on my little web-site.The main perk or registering is that you can leave comments and customise some of the aspects of the site, if you are not using any of the smart feed-readers out there, you may also ask to be notified when I update my site. My ultimate goal is to grow this web-site and my slave’s web-site into a useful resource for those already part of the lifestyle and those wanting to enter it. This might expand(…)

Yesterday I managed to steel some time out of my day to read this website’s statistics once more. Google Analytics does a smashing job of displaying vital information about how this website is being used. One of the phrases used to find this website was

. It struck me as interesting enough to write a little blurb about it. The reason why this phrase interests me so much is because I have not quite answered that question for myself, but I have found certain aspects in BDSM which seem to work well in controlling my slave.

General Thoughts

When I wrote my little article on making someone your slave I already touched on some of the basic traits you need to have therefore this text will be rather short. While I believe that patience is one key element of being a good Master another one is that you can accept to be adored. It sounds odd that one needs to learn(…)

I do not know much about the struggle the gay community had o go through to finally get accepted by most of the societies and countries on this planet. I have gay friends, but it is not a topic which is brought up very often. There is an element of pride in the homosexual movement which strikes me as appealing though. As our society changes we need to be less afraid of the influence such change as on our lives. It seems that this gay pride has helped in making homosexuality more visible, has helped society to need to accept it as something normal.

Our Pride

Whenever I venture into the realms of BDSM I meet people who are smart, have a balanced opinion and lead an interesting life. There are many different personalities and facets to those involved in this lifestyle and very seldom have I met someone that I could not be proud of. Why do we choose to hide our choice(…)