Those of you who read my slave’s wonderful web-site will be quite aware that she has been progressing nicely and that we have had a lovely time together in Toronto. Not all of it was spent doing things that she cherishes or actually craves in the first place, but all of them seem to have brought our relationship forward.

I am confronted with a sentence that goes a little bit like this more often than less:

That is not fair, Master!

Looking at the situations in hindsight in which that sentence was used, I would say that was a fair (ha ha ha) assessment of the situation.

The relationship that we lead is not about me being fair, about me balancing my slave’s wishes and needs perfectly, our relationship is about what I want, what I need, what I allow to happen and sometimes that does not need to be fair. Before all of the slightly feministicly tinged readers of my blog now go into anaphylactic(…)

Dear Readers.

I have returned from molesting my slave and it has come to my attention that there is much better interactivity on her web-site than on mine. I wonder whether that is because I am being perceived as the dominant half or whether people find it intimidating to post a comment on my site. It could of course be that my web-site is just not as interesting, but I would like to not entertain that possibility.
Step Up!

I want to create more interactivity and I think it is unfair to only have my opinion portrait on this web-site. I want others to pitch in and I want to be able to offer a variety of opinions on Masters and their slaves and the relationships we all lead. I will of course continue to write about myself and my slave, but this is a chance for you to step up and be heard. Do not be shy, if you feel you need to be(…)

A little surprise, for my slave and for all of you. As always, click on the picture to see a full scale image.

You can get a T-shirt of this portrait over at the HerOwner Zazzle Shop.

I have always been a fan of Massive Attack and the music they produce, lately I keep listening to a song over and over again, it is called I Against I. While the song is not only part of the movie Blade II it is also a good reflection on the eternal struggle with your inner enemy, with your doubts and the strength within wich needs to be balanced against the exposed, weak and much more sheltered side of a human being.

Rock In The Sea

I split waves and I stand tell in the most vicious of storms I will always be my slave’s rock, someone that she can cling onto. Tat does not mean that the sea does not eat away at me. I have to struggle and fight the metaphorical sea every day. I struggle to fight against myself, to balance the scale, for I am not infallable. There are times when I feel weak, little and helpless, even tough it(…)