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The Crop Please - BDSM 101 #7

This entry is part 11 of 11 in the series BDSM 101

This installment of BDSM 101 introduced the crop and the pleasures of using it. As always, please consider learning about the toys your use and especially with blunt force objects you need to know what you are doing.

The Crop

I do hope that you enjoy this strip, it is a little simpler than the ones you might be used to and not as out there on the edge of perversion but definately it depicts one of the most favourite activities of BDSM I enjoy.

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Tags: bdsm, BDSM 101, crop, Don Lomax, perversion, pleasure
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  • How To Unleash The Bastard In Me

    Those of you who read my slave’s wonderful web-site will be quite aware that she has been progressing nicely and that we have had a lovely time together in Toronto. Not all of it was spent doing things that she cherishes or actually craves in the first place, but all of them seem to have brought our relationship forward.

    I am confronted with a sentence that goes a little bit like this more often than less:

    That is not fair, Master!

    Looking at the situations in hindsight in which that sentence was used, I would say that was a fair (ha ha ha) assessment of the situation.

    The relationship that we lead is not about me being fair, about me balancing my slave’s wishes and needs perfectly, our relationship is about what I want, what I need, what I allow to happen and sometimes that does not need to be fair. Before all of the slightly feministicly tinged readers of my blog now go into anaphylactic(…)

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    Tags: Bastard, bdsm, control, doll, love, Master, ownership, power exchange, privileges, relationship, servitude, slave, toronto, trust
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  • Dear Readers.

    I have returned from molesting my slave and it has come to my attention that there is much better interactivity on her web-site than on mine. I wonder whether that is because I am being perceived as the dominant half or whether people find it intimidating to post a comment on my site. It could of course be that my web-site is just not as interesting, but I would like to not entertain that possibility.
    Step Up!

    I want to create more interactivity and I think it is unfair to only have my opinion portrait on this web-site. I want others to pitch in and I want to be able to offer a variety of opinions on Masters and their slaves and the relationships we all lead. I will of course continue to write about myself and my slave, but this is a chance for you to step up and be heard. Do not be shy, if you feel you need to be(…)

    Continue reading “Masters, slaves - I Challenge You To an Interview”

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    Tags: audio interviews, bdsm, bdsm community, bdsm interviews, community, information, interactivity, interviews, journalism, lifestyle, master and slave, slave relationships, video interviews
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  • BDSM 101 - Check Me Out In Colour

    This entry is part 15 of 11 in the series BDSM 101

    Beauty

    A little surprise, for my slave and for all of you. As always, click on the picture to see a full scale image.

    You can get a T-shirt of this portrait over at the HerOwner Zazzle Shop.

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    Tags: BDSM 101, Don Lomax, fetish pictures, Portrait
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