Yesterday night I went out with some colleagues from work. As per usual we first went to the pub and that is where I discovered a new drink Pepsi Raw. Not only does it have an intriguing bottle, but the name intrigued me as well, so I gave it a try and boy… it is raw, but in a good way.

Today, after crawling out of bed more due to lack of sleep than an overdose on alcoholic beverages, I finally had a chance to read my slave’s beautiful post on sexuality and being sexy. It made me remember the experience I had with that new drink in the pub and it made me think back to the time we spent in a night-club, close to where I live. 

Physical Sexuality

I will happily admit that I like beautiful things. While beauty always lies in the eyes of the beholder, I cannot help but being influenced by what we all deem beautiful. When it comes to women that usually means that I(…)

Avid readers of this blog, I wish to thank you for sticking with me and paying attention to what I have to say. I treasure the knowledge that my care and attention to detail pleases you and that my willingness to share is useful to others.

Those of you who have been reading my slave’s blog will have noticed that she recently seem to developing a need for even more control and that it is a very liberating experience to her. It is a liberating experience to me as well, as I will no longer have to consider so carefully what I can push her towards accepting.

Redefining Boundaries

Cemented by recent studies shaped behaviours are more sensitive to change rather than instructed bheaviours. I would argue that most of the behaviours you will be trying to redefine the boundaries off are shaped behaviours. They are deeply ingrained and no less part of your slaves’ personality than her smile or laughter.

Active pushing, passive sliding

To push(…)

For those of you who come to this blog regularly you might recall what I said about patience and how it can help to train your slave. I am proud to report that my patience has recently paid off, because my slave has asked me to be less lenient with her. It might be hard to understand that type of logic and I would not ever put myself into a position where I thought that I fully understood it, but tight control and absolute obedience towards that control are things which drive my slave forward. 

Being Lenient

I am a strong believer in measured responses, as such I can always choose to what metric I am apply my measure. I have always been more than thoughtful towards my slave’s feelings, her emotional readiness towards a certain action and of course her overall state of mind. That something requires me to postpone or re-plan, when I have set out to do something but in the end it does not quit pan out(…)