A Beginning…

My slave has started to successfully record her story in the blog I created for her, named so aptly slave musings. Reading everyone of her posts, I thought that it might be interesting for readers to see her actions from her owner’s point of view. I will aim to do so here.
Attentive readers might recall that my slave recently has gone through two weeks of intensive training of her asscunt. I love anal sex and I expect my slave to be well trained, so that anal sex is a joy to me but also feels pleasing to her. A very elementary but crucial bit of psychology. Allowing my slave to feel pleasure through proper training will make her more eager and willing to please, thus making it a better experience for her improves her value to me as a slave.

Being Different…

Anal training can be done in many different ways and there are excellent resources on the Internet. I will not go into details, rather I would like to present five butt plugs which are extraordinary. These plugs can help to enhance play through augmenting fears or inhibitions a slave might have. Humiliation is a powerful tool in the training of your slave and I would urge anyone to carefully consider what and how they are applying it. The plugs I am about to show can be bought from Internet retailers and should be used to enhance the training of your slave.

Chrome…

Brought to you by a retailer in Australia this Butt Plug is mentioned because of it is aesthetics. The plug itself is about 4″ long and 1.25″ wide, so it should be well suited even for beginners. Keep in mind though that this is a heavy toy made out of a material which will not allow the sphincter to compress it. This puts constant stress on the muscle and might lead to inflammation. Due to its weight, the plug would be a constant reminder to your slave, it can be bought at: blacklabeladultshop

Feathers…

In 1999 Playboy Magazine published a series called

Birds of a feather

sporting beautiful young models in outfits related to birds. One of them wore a butt plug for over three hours. The butt plug displayed here is a replica of the one used in the photo shoot, it is about 4″long, 1.25″ wide and the feathers are between 16″-18″ long. Expressive plugs which have a part to them that is clearly visible to people looking can be a powerful toy to further enhance a feeling of control and helplesness. This is a truly extraordinary plug which could be worn for a wide variety occasions, you can buy this plug at: JT’s Stockroom

Sparkling…

Colourful, sparkling when the light brushes over the end of this plug. This plug begs to be exposed, shining out between warm ass-cheeks. The colour of the end is your choice of course, make sure it does not bite with the colour of your slave’s skin. At 6.3 oz for the small and 14 oz for the large version this plug is rather heavy. Combined with the sparkling end, it is a perfect training tool and reminder for public exposure of a slave. You can acquire this colourful toy from Extremerestraints

N-joy It…

All plugs from the Njoy series are made of stainless steel. This is the small brother of the double ended version. The handle makes it easy to insert this plug or use it to dilate the sphincter by repeatedly pushing the bulbous head past the muscle. Of course this is a perfect plug to guide your slave by, or to use with binding fibres. The head comes in three sizes ranging from 1″ to 1.5″. You can buy this beautiful toy at: JT’s Stockroom

Dark Pleasures…

As a variation of the smaller sparkling plug shown above, this might not be everybody’s cup of tea. A plug to satify the darker cravings of live with a nice ring held in the jaw of a modeled skull. The ring is a formidable addition, as it helps to secure a bell or other noise creating objects, thus drawing even more attention to the filled asscunt. You can get a hold of it at Extremerestraints

In Conclusion

I consider a properly trained asscunt to be an essential property a well trained slave should be able to offer. To better understand how butt plugs can help you train your slave, spend some time scoring the Internet for different type of plugs, make sure you understand the difference in materials as well. Spend some time reading a bit about the anatomy of the female colon.
Once stretching of the sphincter and training of the muscle to accept the toys you wish to fill it with has been completed you can start to experiment with the mental aspects to having your slave’s asscunt filled by a toy. We naturally develop an apprehension to having our sphincter toyed with and something those barriers need to be broken down constantly. Spend time correcting behaviours and thus enhance the pleasure your slave will be able to offer you.

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[A journal in PDF format of all five published articles can be downloaded as well.]

Every good slave knows that to be obedient is the one thing that reflects best on her. Telling your slave to be quiet and her following your wishes is the ultimate goal for any training. There are various reasons why you might want to silence your slave using a gag. There is a plethora of gags out there and I have picked a certain type to show you today. Most of these gags are head trainer gags. I have picked five that I like a lot and I hope you see them as inspiration to come up with your own choice.
In all my posts you can click on the images, if there is a larger version available you will be able to see it automatically.

This lovely gag, called the Stuffer Mouth Gag can easily be inserted without causing too much distress to the jaw and the muscles. It would argue that this is a very well suited gag for long-term wear. Please be aware that stuffing your slaves’ mouth will make it much harder for her to communicate. Make sure you have agreed in hand signals or other forms of communication.

My slave loves pink toys and I will admit that they are well suited for her. She has dark hair and dark eyes with a very fair complexion so the colour pink suites her very well. This head harness is lockable at the base with a tiny padlock which will ensure that it is not being tampered with should you choose to leave your pet alone for a while. The large, white ball will force the jaw muscles to tire quickly though.

This gag is another one very suitable for long-term wear. This Rubber Penis Gag with Airway is adjustable so that you can ensure that your slaves’ mouth is not filled too much and thus her jaw muscles will be able to cope with the strain of long-term wear. It is especially well suited if your slave has respiratory issues or suffers from breathing anxiety when gagged.

Being gagged and humiliated, what a precious combination. This Silence Gag with Lead Ring is perfect to enforce absolute silence. Every time your slave dares to make a sound, you simply tug the attached leash, thus bringing immediate attention to her wrong doing and ensuring that she knows at all time who is in charge. Of course you could also choose to lead her about on all fours gagged like this.

With this you can be sure to fully restrict your slave and to ensure that she feels you ownership quite clearly. This wonderful Blue Mask Gag fits not only tightly against her mouth, but covers everything down to a collar around her throat. The strap over the head ensures that it does not shift out of position and thus makes her feel even more trapped.

In Conclusion

These gags are just a tiny choice of all the gags which are out there. I would strongly recommend that you go and explorer together with your slave. Gagging someone can be a touchy subject, as not all slaves are comfortable with this form of control. There is a considerable amount of trust involved when you are gagging someone, as you are taking away their ability to call our for help. Please make sure you have taken all necessary precautions before you gag you slave.

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Another post in my series of Five. This time I would like to focus on toys which are hard to break and made of the wonderful material called steel. Not only is steel versatile and hard to break as a material, it is also very easy to clean and the naturally cool feeling of steel against bare skin can add an extra thrill to the experience. Make sure you click on the thumbnails to view the full picture.

This lovely trinket is called the Double Sided Pinwheel, our kinky friends over at JT have commissioned Scott Paul to design this little beauty. This is an enhanced version of the more traditional Wartenberg Pinwheel, which actually is a medical instrument. Make sure you are very careful when playing with this toy, as the sharp needle ends will make it easy for you to break skin. Be sure you know how to deal with bleeding skin and ensure that you are kept safe either by wearing gloves or knowing that your (play) partner has no diseases.

Has you slave touched something once too often without asking permission, even though you have told her over and over again? These handy Steel Fist Mittens might be the answer to your problem. They are easily lockable at the sides using padlocks and have enough room inside for your slave’s fingers to remain in a relaxed position. For that very reason these mittens are excellent for long-term wear. Additional to keeping your slave from grabbing things without asking, the weight of 3.3lbs for each of these mittens will nicely work out her muscles.

I believe that this is one of the most beautiful steel collars on the market these days. Crafted in Germany, and we all know Germans are famous for being good engineers, this collar locks using an almost invisible built in ABUS security lock. ABUS are famous for thier high security locking devices, so you can rest assured that none of your slave’s friends will be able to lock pick this collar. The steel is 0.25 thick depending on size the collar can weigh anywhere from one to two pounds.

It seems your slave did not listen again. I should be enough to tell her to “sit”, but apparently she needs to be convinced. Try this steel bondage chair and she will surely keep still this time. As these locking devices on the chair are not lined with fur or leather you will need to ensure that you are not chaffing your slaves skin. Chaffed skin is not only prone to infection, but skin hurt in such a manner is also a very painful. Before ordering this device measure your slaves neck, ankles and wrists to ensure there is a good fit.

Even though you tried your best, used all your other toys, she is still not behaving, that is when it is time for the “small and nice but bitchy” cage. Another feat crafted by our German friends with utter humiliation and secured slave storage in mind. While the padded areas will make sure there is no joint or skin damage, the kneeling position and the availability of your slaves face ensure that she knows who is in charge. Taking away all her freedom, she is now at your mercy to roll her around.

Conclusion

Many of the toys in this post are a little pricey. Steel is not a cheap material and the manual labour needed to craft some of these toys does not come cheap. I believe that every single one of the toys shown in this installment is worth its price. The attention to detail is marvelous and if that is not enough, there is a novelty factor to each and everyone of them.

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With this instalment of the rather well perceived series of five I feel the need to give some words of warning. For the first time I feel that I might be threading into a topic area not everyone is familiar nor comfortable with. These toys are all provided by a small company named zoofur. As they are a provider of speciality toys, these toys cover many aspects, even the more extreme ones, such as bestiality. If you do not feel comfortable with that topic, please make sure you skip reading this article.

Called the Slipknot this little gem is our first xtreme toy for this post. While it might look a little menacing to you (click on the picture to take a closer look) the actual measurements are not that intimidating. With an overall length of 8 inches the tip is only 1/4 inch wide it then tapers to around 1 inch in width close to the knot and it is 1 and half inch wide where the knot is situated. This toy intrigues me because the knot itself will ensure that your slave is constantly aware of it. The shape of the toy is most interesting as well and as it comes in stark black, it is an overall interesting addition to your toy-box

Created for only one purpose to stretch a hole without the nasty feeling of having bumps invading said unsuspecting hole, this toy is simple in looks but according to the web-site very effective at what it does and apparently quite addictive as well. Befittingly named The Trumpet it is smooth and pleasing to the eyes and very long.  A full 10 inches could slowly creep up into your slaves cunt or asshole and widen either hole to a full 3 inches at the very base of the toy. You are starting out rather small though, as the tip is only half an ich wide. There is lots of room for training with this one.

Enter the world of extreme perversion, thus toy is an actual replica of a Wolf’s penis.Yes, you did read that right, this toy is the exact, life sized replica of a Wolf’s cock. Named Ruff’s Stuff this toy is sure to roughen up your slave’s ego and teach her a lesson in ultimate humility should you choose to divulge what is being used on her holes. This toy is a tool for training to me, its dimensions are 1 and a half inches across, from the top 4 and a half inches down to the tip of the knot, 7 and a half inches overall in length. The knotted part is 2 and a half inches across and it is 1 and a half inches tall itself.

Wolves are not your thing? What about horses? Most women seem to like horses, yet what about their cocks? Bring on the Lil’ Rider a monster of a toy and still only the miniature replica of a real stallions penis. Brace yourself for some impressive numbers:

• 7 inches around the outside of the head,
• 5 inches around the shaft
• 11 inches tip to top of the base
• tapers from 4.5 inches around behind the head to 6.5 inches around near the base,
• total length 12 inches

So there is plenty of toy to go around and definitely enough toy to give your slave a good ride.

This toy is a fusion of human and canine cock and it is named The Pup and shown with the natural colouring option. Not as intimidating in size and looks I must say that this is my favourite out of the five I have picked for this post. On the tip it is 1 inch across the tip, from tip to knot it spans 4 and a half inches, 1 three-quarter inches across the Ridges,  and 2 and a half inches across the knot in width. Its total useable length is 7 inches which makes it perfect for use in your slave’s asshole as well as her sex.

Conclusion

I am aware that this post covers a controversial topic. So controversial that some of the toys shown here might even be illegal in the country where you live in. None the less I believe that this type of play and this perversion have a right to exist for those that are excited by the idea. The provider mentioned has spent much of his professional time in creating these toys and I strongly believe that craftmanship needs to be honoured. Please ensure you know the law.

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